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Saving Your Marriage
Throughout my program I will try to help you develop
strategies to save your marriage. For the most part these
strategies revolve around situations where you and your
spouse still live together, or you at least have regular
contact with your partner.
 However,
there are cases where one spouse has left the home. This
happens for a variety of reasons that we will explore in a
moment. But suffice it say that when a spouse leaves home,
for whatever reason, it can be a devastating
experience—especially if you don’t want to divorce or you
have been working on rebuilding your marriage.
It may be that you
find yourself in this situation right now: Your spouse has
left home and you are wondering how you can get him or her
to come home and work on rebuilding your marriage. The pain,
worry, and frustration that this kind of situation causes
are often overwhelming. But you aren’t helpless in the face
of this circumstance.
There are
things you can do to try to get your spouse to reinvest
in your relationship, come home, and do the work necessary
to rebuild your marriage. I want to help you learn how to do
exactly that in this guide: to improve your chances. In this
guide I will give you a set of strategies you can use to
attempt to achieve this goal if your partner has left home
and you want him or her
to come back so you
can rebuild.
The techniques in
this brochure can be very effective. I have seen people get
back together and rebuild their marriage using the
information in this guide. However, they are not foolproof.
If your spouse has left home, you are in a situation where
the chances of rebuilding your marriage are diminished.
There’s no reason to mislead you about that.
Nonetheless, there
is still some chance that you can rebuild your marriage, and
you won’t know whether or not that is possible unless you
give the techniques in this guide a chance. A marriage that
is mostly dead is still a little bit alive.
While the chances
that you can rebuild your marriage are diminished, they
haven’t evaporated completely. Your spouse may still have
some hidden interest in coming home and trying to work on
your marriage that even he isn’t fully aware of.
Accessing that desire and bringing it to the surface can
help rebuild a marriage that is truly on the verge of
collapse.
Doing this is not
as straight forward as you may think. Some of these
techniques are counter-intuitive: They revolve around ideas
that, on the surface, may not seem like the best way to get
your partner back. They have a rationale, however, which I
will explain, and these strategies have proven very
effective for some of my clients in the past. In short, the
methods work, even if they aren’t always obvious.
Having said that,
it’s time to get started on getting your spouse to come
home.
I have identified
three typical scenarios that explain why your spouse might
have left and will give you tools that could encourage your
spouse to come back. In the remainder of this guide, I will
go through each scenario, one by one, investigate the
rationale behind why your spouse left, and look at
techniques you
can use for getting him to come home
and start working on your marriage again.
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